Horse Rider Confidence Coaching

One hour horse rider confidence sessions for equestrians, available as a group experience using silent disco headsets, a private 1:1 session, or as an add on to your riding camp or event. Serving riders across Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, East Midlands and beyond.

The missing piece in your riding 

You can have the right horse, the right trainer and the right technique but still feel that knot in your stomach before a cross-country course, a showjumping round, or even just hacking out. Rider confidence is a mental game and it is one that most training programmes do not address.

I’m Emma, a certified clinical hypnotherapist & psychotherapist offering specialist horse rider confidence coaching across Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, Loughborough and the wider East Midlands.

My sessions combine hypnotherapy, NLP, breath work and evidence based mindset techniques to help you rewire the fear response at its root, not just manage it in the moment.

3 ways to experience a session

1. Evening wind-down sessions at riding camps

This is the session that turns a good riding day into a great one.

If you organise or run a riding camp, an XC training weekend, or a residential equestrian event. I come in the evening after your riders have finished in the saddle and deliver a focused one hour group session using professional silent disco headsets.

Here is why that timing matters.
A day of riding is physically and mentally intense. Riders finish with a head full of new information, feedback from coaches, moments that went brilliantly and moments that did not.
Without a structured way to process all of that, much of it gets lost overnight or, worse, the difficult moments loom larger than they should.

An evening wind down session helps riders consolidate what they have learned, anchor the positive experiences from the day, release the physical and mental tension that builds up in the saddle and go to sleep genuinely ready for stronger riding the next morning.

It is the missing piece of most camp programmes, and riders consistently say it is one of the highlights of their experience.

Using silent disco headsets, each rider hears my voice clearly through their own headset while lying down comfortably as a group. Riders bring a yoga mat or blanket to lie on. A pillow and something warm to snuggle under is recommended. There is no sharing out loud or vulnerability, it is deeply personal, deeply effective and unlike anything else you will find at a riding event.

I work to the theme of your camp throughout.
XC day? The session is built around that. Showjumping clinic? The visualisation and language reflect that. It feels like a purposeful, natural part of the day, not a bolt-on.

Every rider leaves with:

  • Psychology and psycho-education on how the brain drives anxiety in the saddle

  • A fully guided hypnotherapy session via silent disco headsets

  • Visualisation and positive anchoring tailored to the day's riding and discipline

  • Breathwork and relaxation techniques to decompress and reset overnight

  • Mental rehearsal for the following day's riding

  • Practical tools they can use independently going forward

  • A personal MP3 recording of the session to keep and revisit whenever they need it

    If you run riding camps, residential venues or equestrian events in Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire or the surrounding shires and would like to add this to your programme, get in touch here

2. Standalone Group Confidence Sessions at Equestrian Venues

Some venues want to offer their clients something genuinely different, without it being part of a wider camp programme. This is where a standalone session comes in.

I come to your venue on an agreed date and run a one hour group confidence session for your riders, again using silent disco headsets for an immersive group experience. This works brilliantly as a Sunday afternoon session, a pre-competition morning, or a regular add-on that your venue can offer its clients throughout the season.

It is ideal for equestrian centres, livery yards, riding clubs and training venues that want to invest in the mental side of riding for their clients. Your riders get something they cannot get anywhere else. You get a meaningful point of difference that keeps people coming back.

Sessions are built around the needs of your group. XC confidence, arena nerves, competition preparation, general anxiety in the saddle. We agree the focus in advance so the session lands well for everyone in the room.

Every rider leaves with:

  • Psychology and psycho-education on how the brain drives anxiety in the saddle

  • A fully guided one-hour hypnotherapy session via silent disco headsets

  • Visualisation and positive anchoring tailored to the agreed focus

  • Breathwork and practical tools for managing pre-ride nerves

  • A personal MP3 recording of the session to keep and use at home between rides

I cover the East Midlands and surrounding areas and am happy to discuss travel for venues further afield. Get in touch to check availability and talk through how it would work for your yard or centre.

3. Private 1:1 sessions

Prefer something personal? A private one hour session is just you and me. We focus entirely on your specific blocks, your history and your goals, with no group dynamic to navigate.

1:1 sessions are available online.
They are ideal if you are dealing with a specific fear, recovering confidence after a fall, or preparing for an important competition or event.

I work with riders across Derby, Nottingham, Leicester, Loughborough and all over the UK in an online capacity.

Your 1:1 session includes:

  • A free 20 min discovery call to understand your specific triggers and goals

  • A private 45-60 min therapy session combining psychotherapy, hypnotherapy and NLP tailored entirely to you

  • Visualisation and mental rehearsal specific to your discipline

  • Practical tools for managing pre-ride anxiety and in the moment nerves

  • A personal MP3 recording of your session to keep and revisit whenever you need a reset

Who is horse rider confidence coaching for?

These sessions are for any rider who feels that their mindset is the thing getting in the way, not their skill level and not their horse.

You might be:

  • A rider who has had a fall or a scary experience and has not felt the same since

  • Someone who freezes or overthinks on a cross-country course, over a jump, or in the arena

  • A competition rider who performs well at home but loses confidence under pressure

  • A camp participant who wants to get more from the experience and ride with a clearer head

  • A rider who is physically capable but mentally blocked and knows it

You do not need to have had a dramatic incident.
Many riders I work with simply notice a gradual erosion of their confidence over time and want it back.

Why hypnotherapy for horse rider confidence?

Fear and anxiety in the saddle are not a character flaw. They are a survival response. Your subconscious mind has learned to associate riding, or a particular element of riding, with danger and it is doing its job of protecting you.
The problem is that protection is now getting in the way.

Hypnotherapy works directly with the subconscious, where that learned response lives. Through a deeply relaxed state, we can gently reframe how your mind interprets the experience of riding, building new associations, anchoring positive states and dissolving the fear response that has been holding you back. Unlike talk therapy, you do not need to relive or analyse every difficult experience. We simply update the programme.

Results are often felt quickly. Many riders notice a meaningful shift after just one session. For deeper or longstanding anxiety, a short course of 1:1 sessions delivers lasting change.

And because every rider leaves with a personal MP3 recording of their session, the work does not stop when you walk out the door. You can return to it the night before a competition, after a tough ride, or any time you need to reset.

Areas covered

I am based in the East Midlands and offer horse rider confidence sessions across:

  • Derbyshire, including Derby and surrounding villages

  • Nottinghamshire, including Nottingham and the Vale of Belvoir

  • Leicestershire, including Leicester and Loughborough

  • Lincolnshire, Staffordshire, and South Yorkshire borders

For residential venues, multi-day camps, and events further afield, I am happy to discuss travel. Group bookings with the silent disco headset format are particularly well-suited to venues hosting riders from across the country.

Book a horse rider confidence session

For individual riders

Start with a free 20-minute discovery call. We will talk about where you are at, what has been getting in the way, and whether hypnotherapy is the right fit. No obligation, just an honest conversation.

Book your free 20-minute discovery call

For equestrian venues and event organisers

If you would like to bring a group headset session or an add-on confidence hour to your camp or event, get in touch to discuss availability and how it would work alongside your programme.

Enquire about group and venue bookings